A loss, or the best thing you never had?

"When something or someone leaves you, and you truly get over it, you begin to look to the next thing life has to offer, and often you find that is the best thing it has to offer" - Jasmine Hale (me)




   I know I typically start with a quote from an author, and technically I did. The title of this blog is "A loss, or the best thing you never had", and that is exactly what we are going to talk about. Often we read, hear, see things about heartache and how when you lose something you lose a part of you , or you realize you needed it more than ever, or any of those other incredibly irritating cliches. I am not saying they are not true in some cases, but I am saying that we must learn the difference. We have to know when to dwell, never, to learn, always, and to grow, constantly. 
  It is always okay to cry if you feel the need because that is often involved in the recovery process. It is always okay to remember  because that is often involved in growing wiser. It is always necessary to separate the seasonal things, and people from the permanent because that determines weather we reach our destiny or stay stagnant in a comfortably uncomfortable season. Know if someone leaves, or something changes and you were not the cause, being that you did everything you should have, there is something better out there. 
   It is when we get to the things that were meant to be in our lives permanently we can look back and appreciate the bad for making a way for the great. The distress removes itself and paves a way for your success, your happiness, your destiny. 

Think about it.

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